It drives me nuts when I'm being unjustly insulted or owned but I still  have to keep my ego limber so I can objectively fight for my dignity. But sometimes we might get good constructive criticism to make us better but we confuse it with hateration. Either way, I want to share tips to deal with criticism or hateration to keep it from driving u nuts!

11 TIPS FOR DEALING WITH CRITICISM:

1. Expand. Sometimes criticism stings because we know the criticizer has a valid point. After you’ve done the inner wince, take a deep breath and get back in the ring.

Child protection services would rather you try this approach rather than piss off the entire audience with a crying baby and end up getting shot like this dude on Christmas day!

Man shoots talking parent at movies

Its one thing to complain about major things like running out of toilet paper in the bathroom or being told no raises will be given out again this year, BUT she complains about EVERYTHING from recycled paper to breathing recycled air. 

I wonder will I get caught if I beat her with a sweat sock full of canned corn the next time she opens her fracken mouth????

I have had complete strangers (including co-workers) ask me the following personal questions that are NONE OF THEIR FUDGIN BUSINESS:

• Is that a weave, wig or your real hair?
• Who were you talking to on the phone?
• You missed work cause you had a doctor appointment? what kind of doctor and what was the diagnosis?
• Did you sleep with that new guy you're dating yet? How come you date outside your race? Your skin color is different what race are you exactly?
• What did the boss say when you were in her office? How much was your raise?
• Is it "that" time of the month for you? How much is your rent & car payment?

WTF??? MIND YOUR OWN !@#$% BUSINESS!!!

Nosey people feel they need to ask even the most intrusive, personal questions, while seemingly not knowing how inappropriate the questions are.

I refuse to believe in this day and age people don't know what is inappropriate to ask so I rather believe they just don't give a flark about violating my personal space!! Since they don't give a flark, why should I give a flark by answering them politely if I answer them at all?

It is my constitutional right to return a phone call, e-mail, im or text message whenever I feel like it BUT there are those who feel my constitutional right is to respond to them when they want me to respond to them.

I have a few friends (and you know who you are) who pester me when I don't respond to them immediately.  They never consider that maybe I'm busy earning a living, maybe I'm ill, maybe I am trapped under something heavy and can't get to my phone or computer, or maybe......I JUST DON'T FEEL LIKE TALKING TO THEM RIGHT NOW!!

They take it sooooo personally.  Sometimes I am just in a bad mood so rather than expose others to that, I just don't talk to people. It probably has nothing to do with the person. 

Then again, there are those people (and they know who they are) that are so self absorbed with the drama in their life or so judgmental about whatever you say to them.  That makes it REALLY hard to respond to them in a timely fashion. I don't wanna attend a pity party for some one else when I can be having my own pity party!

Moral of the story: Before you pester some one about not responding to you, ask yourself if you perhaps make them uncomfortable with your conversation as that MIGHT be the reason they don't respond!!

Look at my new bolted down toilet seat cause I'm tired of falling into the toilet arse first! 

How !@#% hard is it to put the toilet seat back down after you use it ESPECIALLY since its NOT your @#$% house?

Either put the toilet seat back down, urinate sitting down or take a whizz some place else! 

Although John Mayer has already appolgized for saying:

"he doesn't date Black women because he has the genitalia of a White Supremacist" 

here's the first of many videos mockinghis stupidity... btw, does that mean black women have the genitalia of the civil rights movement, of Martin Luther King, or of abolitionist, etc??

The only thing worse than driving to work in the snow is dealing with the lint-licker in front of you who was too lazy to clean the snow off their car, hence making it a nightmare for you!!

Luckily some states are now issuing tickets to self centered idiots like this, but until it hits your state, your stuck with your life in your hands behind these retards.

Microwave popcorn has been around for over 25 years since Act II sold the first bag in 1984 YET...

DUMB ARSE PEOPLE AT MY JOB STILL CAN'T FLARKIN POP IT WITHOUT BURNING IT EVEN WHEN THERE IS A FUDGIN BUTTON ON THE MICROWAVE THAT CLEARLY SAYS "POP @#$% CORN" 

Now I'm sucking in all kinds of horrible carcinogens that have yet to be proven nonfatal. Even the mentally challenged can make popcorn with out burning it so thx arse hole.

People with a history of burning popcorn sould have their popcorn privelges provoked and also be prohibited from re-producing humans as well!

Just like this photo, I had to offer numerous people a tall frosty mug of...

SHUT THE FLUCK UP!

all throughout the football game yesterday! Surprisingly the same talkative lint lickers were silent during the commercials and the halftime show! Selfish cootie scratchers! ***UGH***